Family and children / Chapter 30

Children after starting school

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Section 20 covers the first year after a child is born. Section 18 covers how much money and time raising a child costs. The years in between, ages 3 to 18, are in this section. The item on screen time by age starts at age 0, because the official tiers are 0–3, 3–6, and primary/secondary school; splitting them would make the guidance harder to use. This section answers one question: when “don’t delay schoolwork” collides with “the body,” which things cannot wait. They cannot wait because they have time windows; once missed, they cannot be made up. Whether schoolwork should be that intense is not discussed here — only the windows and the numbers.

The first eight items, item 12 (cycloplegic refraction), item 13 (pit and fissure sealants), items 15 through 19, and item 21 (head hit during sport) are scored on death and lasting physical or mental harm. Among them, items 16 and 17 are about how to parent at home: no hitting or yelling, and take a parenting class that teaches concrete skills. Item 18 is about not sending a child to a closed “internet addiction” school. Item 19 is about teaching a child which body parts are private and to tell you if they were touched. Item 9 (do not buy products that “cure myopia”) and item 20 (do not ride on the road under age) are scored on money. Item 10 (written rules on sleep, homework, PE, and rankings), item 11 (leave of absence with enrollment kept), and item 14 (when a child loves games) are scored on time. Drowning, traffic, helmets, and HPV vaccine are in Section 1. Infants are in Section 20. Scams against children and game top-ups are in Section 5. Red lines minors themselves must not cross are in Section 9. How to recognize an emergency and call a car is in Section 13. Children after a parent dies are in Section 29. None of that is repeated here.

Items in this section are grouped by theme below (numbers in parentheses are item numbers).

Care that cannot wait: sudden severe pain — go to hospital at once (item 1); do not put off treatment to wait for exams (item 2); the annual student health-check report (item 7).

Eyes and teeth: enough outdoor time, 2 hours a day (item 4); screen rules by age (item 5); deeper myopia degrees (item 6); do not buy products that “cure myopia” (item 9); cycloplegic refraction (item 12); pit and fissure sealants (item 13).

At school: report bullying the same day (item 3); written rules on sleep, homework, PE, and rankings (item 10); leave of absence with enrollment kept (item 11).

Mental health and parenting at home: depression screening (item 8); when a child loves games (item 14); when a child says they like the same sex (item 15); do not hit when disciplining (item 16); take a parenting class (item 17); do not send to an internet-addiction school (item 18); know private body parts (item 19).

Roads and playing fields: do not ride on the road under age (item 20); after a head hit in sport, do not play again that day (item 21).

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Pit and fissure sealants applied after permanent molars emerge

Grade AMedium benefitLifespanLow costLittle timeNo willpower

Pit and fissure sealing fills the grooves on the chewing face of big molars with resin so food scraps cannot pack in. Two years after sealing, the chance of cavities is about one eighth of not sealing. …

18

Do not send a child to a closed “internet-addiction school” or “special training camp”: the law bans harming body or mind to treat internet addiction, and children have already been locked up until they died

Grade CBig benefitLifespanFreeLittle timeSome willpower

The law clearly bans treating internet addiction in ways that harm a child’s body or mind. At a special training school in Hefei, a boy just sent there was cuffed in a solitary room and died about 44 hours later. …

19

Teach a child which body parts are private; if someone touches them or asks them to keep a secret, they must tell you at home; when they tell, believe them first, do not scold, and take them to report and seek care

NewGrade BSmall benefitLifespanFreeLittle timeSome willpower

Children who took anti-sexual-abuse classes clearly did more self-protection moves in drills with a pretend stranger. What they learned was still there half a year later, and they did not become more fearful. …

21

If a child hits their head in sport and then has headache, dizziness, or fogginess, do not put them back in that day; if they keep vomiting, grow sleepier, or the headache keeps getting worse, go to emergency at once

NewGrade BBig benefitLifespanFreeLittle timeSome willpower

Children who keep playing after concussion take on average 44 days to recover; those taken out at once about 22 days. If something is off after a head hit, do not play again that day — wait until a doctor says yes. …

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